We should bury our assumptions. I’m talking full-scale, full regalia funeral … teak wood coffin, hand carved with the faces of the fallen; those who did not measure up to pre-planned notions in our dramas. Mute assumptions lurk behind our words, always introduced, after the party is over. Here is the guillotine line: “I thought YOU, of all people, would know THAT, about ME!! So the head of that constitute is lobbed into the basket labeled, X’s. Oh the life…